Redefining masculinity is important NOW more than ever. Let’s take this journey together and discover how redefining masculinity for ourselves as sensitive men may open the door for others to question their perspectives on masculinity.
Redefining masculinity is about reVisioning masculinity for ourselves as men from a large minority of the population. Our example may inspire others to take up this grim statistic of men choosing suicide over life. The stats for our veterans are heartbreaking with two veterans per day choosing suicide, despite efforts to teach skills like resilience, recognition of real emotional difficulty, and lessening of the stigma to seek help. With the loss of each man we have also lost the individual and collective impact they would have had throughout their life courses. That effects children, partners, and families with tragic and lifelong scarring. Truly, reVisioning masculinity for ourselves first is a worthwhile effort
Embracing being more attuned and sensitive is not about being attached to it, not about deriving identity from it, or about bemoaning the set of adaptive tools that it provides. Rather, embracing high sensitivity is about experiencing it, learning from it, and being sensitive as a process we are deeply immersed in and curious about how it manifests in our lives and the lives of others.
Don’t be too deeply attached to sensitivity; simply embrace and experience it. You, me, and everyone else are each constellations of interdependent micro and macro systems largely operating out of our conscious awareness.
Being a sensitive man doesn’t make you weak, soft, or “unmanly,” it makes you attuned to everything. There is strength in attunement.
Being more attuned to all environments as an adaptive strategy is what sensory processing sensitivity is all about. It has zero to do with how we feel as males of the species or how we should perceive ourselves as compared to other males. In fact, if you are comparing yourself to how you feel you should be, you’re limiting who and what you may become! #TheGeniusofSensitivity#highlysensitivemen#hsshsp#highlysensitivesoul#masculinity
Rico the Race Car, a new book written especially for highly sensitive children as they learn essential skills to help them build a strong foundation for later growth and confidence. We need many more like this!!
Seekers the world over are returning to the somatic practice of sacred frame drumming — adding rhythm and drumming to their self-care practices as a form of active meditation, healing, contemplation, and focus.
The practice of frame drumming has a rich cross-cultural history for healing, celebration, ceremony, and rites of passage.
And today, researchers, scientists, and laypeople alike are exploring how the power of music and sound healing — along with our beliefs and subjective experiences — can have a measurable impact on our biology, immune system, and mental and emotional states.
Many people have reported that following a focused drumming session, they often feel a shift in consciousness and a change in mood or energy.
On Saturday, December 18, you’ll experience a focused drumming session for yourself when you join a new online event with Krista Holland, a multifaceted teacher and frame drummer…
In this 60-minute free online event, you’ll discover:
A powerful practice to help stimulate the potential of your immune system through guided imagery and active visualization — accompanied by a sound-healing experience set to the rhythms of the sacred frame drum and your breath
How the frame drum became a mythical cross-cultural art form that’s part of the collective human story — and has long led to improved health outcomes, powerful self-discovery, mental clarity, balance, and belonging
How the frame drum’s rhythm can be a complementary self-care tool for stress reduction, self-healing, and creative wellbeing
Your body’s built-in system for relaxation, including its endogenous healing mechanisms
The power of rhythm and drumming for shifting your consciousness
Krista’s approach to playing the frame drum weaves together the sacred, mythological, and technical aspects of drumming through story, visualization, somatic inquiry, rhythm notations, and more…
You won’t need any musical experience to access this simple, yet powerful guided practice.
You won’t want to miss this opportunity to discover how you can initiate a healing transformation when you combine the time-tested practices of drumming and conscious breathing with modern research on the power of your thoughts.
P.S. In Bridge Ancient & Modern Healing Wisdom Through a Sacred Frame Drumming & Breathing Practice…
… you’ll move through a guided sound-healing experience featuring the rhythms of the sacred frame drum, guided imagery, active visualization, and your own breath — to shift your mindset and enjoy optimal health and wellbeing.
We hope you’re able to catch the event as scheduled. But if you register and miss it, you’ll receive a downloadable recording as soon as it’s available: https://shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/sfd/a23725
Teaching OUR sensitive children from the beginning that their big feelings and sensitivity have a purpose that they can feel good about is where we start with raising healthy sensitive children!
We DO need to work on providing helpful tools to our children that teach them emotional intelligence strategies! This book is a neat concept that I think kids will easily connect with Rico the Race Car
Can sensitive men be Sensitive AND Strong? You better believe it!! The myths and misconceptions about sensitive men are tied to a lack of an accurate understanding of sensory processing sensitivity that is astounding in their dismissive nature and lack of meaningful critical engagement or even a capacity to rationally and carefully work through what is a complex issue!
The REAL crisis is in the lack of critical capacity to think!! When we are largely led by our social groups, along with our own native egocentrism, real rational thinking, the kind that can hold up to scrutiny and that utilizes universal standards of thinking and elements of reasoning, we aren’t really thinking at all. We are just going along with the crowd because “they” all think being highly sensitive means one thing or another (always unexamined positions) and it is easier to NOT think in any real way because critical thinking is difficult and requires real effort and an openness to examine one’s positions. That spirit to think rationally seems to be sidelined in our world of late.
The Genius of Sensitivity: Redefining Masculinity will shatter myths and knee-jerk cliches about being highly sensitive and men. Within that collection of real stories from real men, some very well-respected and successful men, we kick the door down to invite an open dialog that moves beyond mere surface-level bias that never gets at the real core features of the trait.
Did you know that men die by suicide at three times the rate of women? What’s the reasons behind that horrifying statistic and are we in a crisis that we can do anything about? Or will we allow our young men to slip through the cracks because we don’t want to talk about real and authentic mental health? What if there were a widely distributed film that men could view and reconsider their perspectives on what it may mean to be men? Would that help? Undoubtedly!
One of The Genius of Sensitivity Award Nominees for SENSITIVE MAN OF THE YEAR is the late author of five books, including ‘The Strong Sensitive Boy’ and advocate for all sensitive men with an emphasis in parenting and raising children, Ted Zeff Ph.D., OUR HERO!!!
Ted was a passionate advocate committed to reframing culture so sensitive boys become strong boys and strong men! Dr. Ted knew that parents of sensitive boys need to truly understand and appreciate the trait, so they can nurture it.
The Genius of Sensitivity-Redefining Masculinity producers are fortunate to have collected rare interviews from Dr. Zeff’s archives about nurturing boys of all ages, religions, races, and nationalities. Ted consulted internationally and gave workshops in 15 countries and was considered one of the world’s experts on the trait of high sensitivity. Parents and children of all ages will benefit tremendously from “Ted’s talk.” He may have left his body, but his voice will live on forever. He will bring true wisdom to The Genius of Sensitivity-Redefining Masculinity.
Dr. Tracy Cooper 