Have you visited social media lately and noted the large number of people posting on HSP-related pages espousing all sorts of faulty connections between Sensory Processing Sensitivity and, well, everything under the sun? Curiously, many of those people freely admit they have never read any of the well-researched and well-written books exploring highly sensitive people. How can we reasonably expect to gain any significant growth or self-awareness if we do not ground ourselves in the scientific literature? It is very interesting to consider that highly sensitive people may well have a broader possible range of behaviors than in those without the trait, but possible does not mean probable or actual.
We HSPs are just as susceptible to poor thinking as anyone else. We are neither superior nor inferior to anyone else: just slightly different. It is imperative that, if we care about basing our thinking on reliable information, we seek out the best sources possible. Sensitive-The Untold Story is a documentary film created just for highly sensitive people, but everyone is welcome to watch, of course. In our fast-paced society I highly recommend taking the time out of your busy day and viewing this wonderfully well-done and entertaining film. There is no quicker way to gain a deep grounding in what it means to be a highly sensitive person than to simply view this film. Afterwards, you might wish to read some of the great books that researchers have written to further deepen your understanding and appreciation of this personality trait. I have written two books:
Thrive: The Highly Sensitive Person and Career
Thrill: The High Sensation Seeking Highly Sensitive Person
Coming to know Sensory Processing Sensitivity is no easy task. You will need to read, reflect, and think about how this trait has influenced your life and the lives of those in your social circle. Though you may initially latch onto some tidbit of illumination I urge you to resist the human tendency to homgenize an entire group of over a billion people into one narrow box. We HSPs and HSS/HSPs are a fantastically mixed segment of the human population. Those who say they know us are only fooling themselves because we are as varied as grains of sand on a beach. Come to a knowing of what it means to be a highly sensiitve person by association. Get to know yourself, or the HSPs in your life slowly, we are worth the time…